Our attitudes and answers and those of others, are closely related to certain factors of learning, accepted standards and personal experiences. Imagine that during a meeting with friends, one of them tells a joke causing everyone to laugh out loud. After seeing the response to the joke, you decide to tell it at the next opportunity presented him. The day that you have, during a lunch with co-workers, everyone laugh out loud and you s feel euphoric because he has been successful in this adventure. Due to the good results obtained, it is very likely that you repeat it every time the occasion arises.
Do you want to know why? Simply because people tend to repeat that which makes us feel successful. Instead, if the first account the joke, not provoke more than grins on the faces of listeners, more insurance is that joke not again to count, so more, perhaps to forget it. When the things we do or say fail, we usually tend not to repeat them. Now suppose you have to He is circulating a road behind the wheel of his brand-new Mercedes Benz new. He knows that he has to respect the safety distance with the car which has front. And he keeps it.
Are you behaving appropriately, respecting rules and laws. However, it notes that compliance with the standards of the movement, allows other drivers they conducted him, placing themselves between yours and the vehicle ahead. And one another (Luckily the least) whips you with powerful gusts that accelerate. While his behaviour is correct, according to the rules of courtesy, to yield the right of way, is you experiencing negative sensations, product of the behavior that you cause in some drivers. Which advance you cause you go leaving behind and that behind you are approaching him recklessly, with its flashes make you feel uncomfortable.